Tips for loved ones

Keep in regular contact. Even if you live far away, frequent calls, letters and emails make a big difference. Regular visits by family and friends help ease the transition. Keep your loved one in the loop about family events as much as possible.

Stay involved. Regular contact not only reassures your loved one, but allows you to serve as an advocate for your loved one’s needs. You want to make sure your loved one is cared for appropriately. If the nursing home has a family council, a group of relatives and friends who meet on a regular basis to discuss concerns and issues, consider joining.